Hello Reader,
Welcome to the fifth installment of the five-part series that
summarizes my entire Get Your Ex Back method.
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5 Step Plan for Reconciling With Your Ex", use the link below.
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Win Your Ex Back Step 5: The Final Make Up
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First of all, I would like to congratulate all of you who have
stuck with this program this far.
In all my years as a practicing therapist helping couples mend
their relationships, I have to say that above and beyond any
other requirements, perseverance is the most important
quality. Without it, techniques and methods are meaningless
because they will never be properly utilized.
I hope that by now you've gotten the message that I don't
claim to have the secret to getting your ex back. What I
ultimately teach you is that you have the secret; that you in
fact ARE the secret, and all I can do is keep pointing you
back to yourself where the ultimate answer lies.
Sure, I can also give you tools, materials, and a blueprint
for creating a successful relationship based on years of
successful couples counseling experience (and a happy, nearly
three decade marriage of my own).
No doubt this is good information to have and, if I say so
myself, the best advice you could possibly get.
But I still have no control over the outcome of the project:
how you put all the pieces together will always be up to you.
At no point is this a more important consideration than at the
final stage of attempting to make your ex an ex-ex.
All that considered, I will now walk you step by step through
the process and what we will learn and do (or not do, as the
case may be) at each stage:
• Make the first contact a phone call using non-threatening
language. We review a comprehensive list of suggested Ice-
Breakers for every occasion to find one that suits you.
• What to do if your calls aren't taken or you get voicemail.
• Ask for the first meeting in a neutral place, how to ask,
when and where to have it.
• Why you shouldn't talk about your relationship issues just
yet, and what you should talk about. What to say and do if
your ex tries to dredge up old dirt. Avoid that subject at all
costs, but keep things upbeat.
• Be careful not to reignite old patterns of poor
communication that fueled the breakup to begin with. In
particular you need to watch out for what I call Fight Traps,
or statements that can instigate conflict, and we will briefly
cover the most common.
• Focus instead on Digging Up Love instead using a variety of
verbal cues, body language, positive topics of conversation,
and more. But don't overdo it, either. We'll cover a host of
methods that should warm things up without going too far.
• Handling cold feet on the part of your ex. He or she will
probably be afraid and nervous. Don't let it bring you down.
• Keep the meeting fairly brief, and finish it on a positive
note. We'll study how you close and say goodbye.
• Ask for another date, but don't fall apart if you're
rebuffed. We'll look at ways to work around the objection, and
how to leave it open and follow up later.
• Once the reconciliation begins, never forget that a
relationship always requires work and compromise.
This completes the outline of the entire program. Of course, I
could not possibly cover every nuance in such a series of
short chapters.
But it should provide you with enough of an outline to work
with and provide many free tips to help you understand what it
takes to win your ex back or save your marriage.
The last thing and most important thing to remember is that
even once the reconciliation is under way, there's always more
work to do.
A good relationship requires you to constantly learn and apply
the principles you've learned here and never falter in
nourishing it and providing it those Essential Relationship
Nutrients.
To ensure that your love that lasts a lifetime, it's vital to
steer clear of the Fight Traps and faulty communication
patterns that destroy most relationships.
This is why I highly recommend that you read my first book,
"Till Death Do Us Part (Unless I Kill You First): A Step by
Step Guide For Resolving Relationship Conflict" and learn how
to properly handle differences to fuel the love fires rather
than extinguish the flame.
Good luck, and I wish you all the love in the world!
—Jamie Turndorf, PhD.
P.S. Dr. Love's Relationship Rescue Kit includes "Make Up
Don't Break Up: Dr. Love's 5 Step Plan for Reconciling With
Your Ex," plus 8 bonus workbooks.
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